What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence, without a basic kind and established outcome. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. Obviously, constantly with respect for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, happy state of being. The effect is frequently a fantastic physical, psychological wellness. Usually, the receiver is very relaxed, wonderfully flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and presence. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. Most touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The hands of the provider are linked with his/her heart. The touch is caring, always focused on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Loaded with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch full of attention and existence. Do not look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are in fact out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about an established result
A tantric massage will constantly be various. It is not the technique or the desired sequence of rubbing that is essential, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required.
Tantric massages for that reason frequently take a really unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss.
Ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limits
We understood it for a long time, of course, however given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear boundaries in advance
Everyone (other than when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is likewise essential (check out the short article on securing borders. So believe ahead of time (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is a proper consumption, and a good preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear borders beforehand: about mental boundaries, as well as make sure for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage need to constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is also entirely okay (though hard to deal with oil then). It is likewise a misunderstanding that a tantric massage should be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have actually given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. In addition, really each cell is sensual, however you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation freely
Triggering and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with respect for (shared) boundaries. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays a crucial role again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ creation/ user-friendly energy.
Focused on the natural happy state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage becomes part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and consciousness. In a flash you can end up being informed (by 1000% surrender), however usually, that is a process in time. Tantra knows different techniques to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose besides self-realization: restoring the natural (thrilled) state of being.
Normally leading to a fantastic physical, mental well-being
Tantra helps you to become more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring therefore much more. Actually, you "learn" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Because this is precisely what takes place typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Enjoying is fully permitted! A tantra massage is generally great, in some cases tasty. We, therefore, welcome you to totally delight in receiving ánd giving a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (focused on pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at recovery).
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, however of a totally various order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are actually extremely energetic during/after the massage. You do not drop off to sleep (unless you are really worn out), you are very alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it different. Tantra massage is definitely not a therapy! It's a type of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, however therapy is a profession apart. Tantra massage definitely has healing impacts, however that is not an end in itself.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the article on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stick out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide great conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is demand free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Develop in integration (rest) minutes.
Need totally free.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, do not try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are mostly very open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. However, know that it can end up differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being excited is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can turn up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing minutes. Prevent limitations from being crossed once again.
* Step by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. However beware: no sex! Practice makes perfect. Delighting in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment sounds) and provide integration moments (simply doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest don't hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (however you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (in some cases completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery impact. Even though tantra massage is not the same as recovery, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft a fantastic read and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you learn what it resembles to like yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which provides an incredibly liberating and deeply satisfied sensation.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a great deal of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love transformation, you may become not just happy however even blissful. A thrilled state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the much better you will feel.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Complete of attention and presence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard kind, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) limits.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Normally leading to a fantastic physical, psychological well-being (of both).